swing for life

I had a stroke a few years back and although I have recovered quite well there is still that insecurity that comes along with being a woman.We always want to look our best and since the left side of my face has froze up on me due to the stroke I am very self conscious about it.After I came from the hospital after this ordeal I found out that not only was my husband cheating on me but he had been for some time now.I had been working so hard trying to get my new business off the ground that I did not see what was right before my eyes.While at home recovering I started just going on line surfing the web to stay busy so that I would not focus on my recovery.That was when I started seeing all the messages that my husband had been receiving from the dating service that he had joined in our home town......

I could not figure out why my husband was caressing me and started acting out of character.Showing emotions use to come hard for him,he didn't give me this much attention when our son was born.I guess things must be very exciting at the dating service that he belongs to.I wasn't home for 24 hours before I started noticing the change in his demeanour. I guess it was his way of trying to cover his guilt.I even found a statement from our bank for "Just Us Dating Service," go figure,he wasn't even smart enough to use one of his credit cards.Thank God for online banking.My next move will be to start divorce proceedings,I don't want his dirty little hands in the cookie jar when my new business starts up.Thank goodness I never shared any of the intricate details of that business, otherwise he may try to claim some credit during the divorce proceedings.To think that were it not for the stroke I would not have found any of this out because I always stayed so busy that he handled all the bills,I never had time for it or surfing the web,everything was always business for me.

After telling him what I found out and to leave (I had this home before we got married) he looked at me real stupid and said WHY.I told him that we could slit everything in our checking and savings accounts and I would not ask for alimony,he agreed.I have enough stock and investments that I had before marriage so it won't interfere with my business.He can continue with his dating service and I will continue with my business.Now I know why my dad told me to never let him know that I was worth 3 million.But after everything is written in stone I will let him know.